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Literature
Literature may be
purchased at any meeting that is listed or
can be viewed and ordered online at
www.al-anon.org
Below is an example of
just one piece of literature that is available to purchase.
Detachment
Alcoholism is a
family disease. Living with the affects of someone else’s
drinking is too devastating for most people to bear without
help.
In Al-Anon, we learn
individuals are not responsible for another person’s disease
or recovery from it.
We let go of our
obsession with another’s behavior and begin to lead happier
and more manageable lives, lives with dignity and rights,
lives guided by a Power greater than ourselves.
IN AL-ANON WE
LEARN:
Not to suffer
because of the actions or reactions of other people;
Not to allow
ourselves to be used or abused by others in the interest of
another’s recovery;
Not to do for others
what they could do for themselves;
Not to manipulate
situations so others will eat, go to bed, get up, pay bills,
not drink: Not to cover up for anyone’s mistakes or
misdeeds;
Not to create a
crisis;
Not to prevent a
crisis if it is in the natural course of events.
Detachment is
neither kind nor unkind. It does not imply judgment or
condemnation of the person or situation from which we are
detaching. It is simply a means that allows us to separate
ourselves form the adverse effects that another person’s
alcoholism can have upon our lives.
Detachment helps
families look at their situations realistically and
objectively, thereby making intelligent decisions possible.
AL-ANON IS:
A worldwide
organization that offers a self-help recovery program for
the families and friends of alcoholics whether or not the
alcoholic seeks help or even recognizes the existence of a
drinking problem. Members give and receive comfort and
understanding through a mutual exchange of experiences,
strength and hope. Sharing of similar problems binds
individuals and groups together in a bond that is protected
by a policy of anonymity.
AL-ANON IS NOT:
A religious
organization or a counseling agency. It is not a treatment
center nor is it allied with any other organization offering
such services. Al-Anon Family Groups, which includes
Alateen for teenage members, neither express opinions on
outside issues nor endorse outside enterprises. No dues or
fees are required. Membership is voluntary, requiring only
that one’s own life has been adversely affected by someone
else’s drinking problem.
Copyright Al-Anon
Family Group Headquarters, Inc.
Pamphlet s-19- Reprinted with permission of Al-Anon Family
Groups
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